RESOLUTIONS OR NEW YEARS GOALS

I sit here at my desk and think about whether it is worth making a resolution to which I probably won’t keep or will for a little while and then fall back into the same old habits again.  I have set them in the past and barely even gotten out of February or sometimes I have made it till May but never actually made my whole goal that I have set.  Maybe this time I could make them simple so that they will be easier to manage.  Now there is a great ideal wonder if it would even work.  Or maybe it would work if I had a buddy do the goals with me.

I don’t know what if any goals to set but if I were to set them here would be just a few I think I would set and I think I could do on my own without needing a buddy to help keep me in line because I do them most of the time

anyway, I just don’t do them continually.

 

  1. I would want to write in my journal more often instead of only at night.
  2. I think I would like to be a better friend than I was last year. More around more.
  3. I would like to be a more giving sister than I have been to my brothers and in turn I would like them to be more giving as well.
  4. I think I would like to be less house bound than I have been maybe get out to see people.
  5. Finally, is trying to be more available for my children even though I am plenty accessible I think.

 

Now if I were to set goals for a buddy which I not sure that I have even heard of buddy resolutions before I would only have one and I would know the right person to ask.  That goal is to lose weight and the person I would ask would be Connie O’Neal because I know she would be willing to help me meet my goal.  Because we have already talked about this and discussed, and she is the right person to help me stay motivative she will also cheer me on as I meet each milestone along the way.  Those are the type of goals I can get behind and stay behind because those type of goals don’t fail because you don’t fail.  It makes life more interesting and it makes life better too.  Not that I’m not happy with life causes I am it is just dang hard sometimes to always fail at making goals and knowing that no matter how hard one words you are never going to win.  This way we all win you and your buddy because you both are helping each other do something you both are trying to do and you both cheer each other on.

 

I have this way of thinking that God puts you with certain people at certain times in your life because that person needs you or you need them so far in my life I have been right.  I have known Connie over a year now and I met her through Facebook she sales a product TruVision it is a great and wonderful product and it has helped a lot of people and it continues to help people.  I want to tell you check out her Facebook business page if you have questions leave her a message she will contact you back and answer all your questions she is an awesome lady plus the product is too.  The name of her business page is Connie’s TruCorner check it out.

 

Now I suppose you are wondering if I get a payback from sending people her way the answer is no it is something I believe in and I believe in her to, so I am just letting you check out a business page on Facebook.  Thank you if you do or don’t check it out but it would be nice if you did.  Anyway, I suppose I have taken up enough of your time and it is way past my bedtime it is 0208 and I should have been in bed almost an hour ago but this thing as been clicking in my head, so I thought I need to write while it was working well.

 

I wish you good luck with your own goals for 2018 mine don’t seem to be to hard this year so maybe just maybe I might make them.  I hope you all meet all of yours as well.   Thanks for reading!!   God bless you all.New-Year-Resolution-Messages-motivational-2018

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LIFE CONTINUES

Hello fellow bloggers, family and friends: Before I start my blog today I want to address to things first if you are not registered to vote please go out and do so.  This election is all about finding the right person for the job.  Who has the best qualities to be President of the United States of America and which of them have what it takes to stay in there and doing what is best for the American people.

Second is that I want to send my prayers and thoughts to all of the friends, family and fellow bloggers of the wonderful, thoughtful Paul Curran he was a very great person and he will be truly missed.

I have always like writing this blog since I started on wordpress because it helps me to keep up with my family, friends and of course other bloggers and let them all know what is happening in my life and to let them know that things are good or bad or whatever the case might be however I have been spending a lot of time on my other side and trying to get things done in my life outside of cyberspace.  (hey it can happen)

Anyway we had the holiday at the beginning of October, it is a month of National Breast Cancer Awareness Month, the run for the World Series and autumn has started so finally the temperatures are starting to cool off slowly for us.   Here in Florida today so far has been beautiful the low when I got up was 61 degrees out and right now it is almost 11AM and it’s about 72 degree with a very nice light breezes.  We have all the windows open.  It is really comfortable.   Today is another holiday Columbus Day not the original of course since that is the 12 October.  Last but not least not this Saturday but the following one is my birthday then we have Halloween then we will be into November and the election is that close wow where as the time got to.

I hope your team is still doing good in the run for the bragging rights to the World Series. I have been much happier lately I think it might be the new man in my life he is awesome, very good to me and he treats me like I’m his whole world.  It is a great feeling.

 

 

GET ME OUT OF HERE

Hello fellow bloggers, family and friends: As most of you know Carl (my hubby) died four years ago today it has taken me that many years to finally honor his final request which was to take him or somehow get him to New England (New Hampshire) so that he might start to enjoy those color changes in the trees when summer starts to turn cooler into autumn.  Well I took his ashes down to the marina during high tide and poured him into the water so that he could catch the gulf streams going out which would happen this morning about 0152.  I figure by now he is probably around the Key Largo, Miami area so he would be on the east side of Florida while I put him in on the west side of Florida.

With the momentum that Tropical depression Bonnie has he should be in the upward part of the east coast and in New Hampshire no later maybe next Monday and I would say by than he should be quite content.  (LOL)

I was miserable when I first thought taking and placing his ashes out in the gulf but I knew this was the most practical solution and it was the only non-money one.  I’m not going to say that it was the easiest thing I have ever done because you who have been reading me for a while would know I would be lying and mostly to myself. I will tell you I think it is the best thing all around for not only him even though I’m sure after four years he doesn’t really care (except to get out of the box) but the rest of us.  I was talking to a friend earlier and told him I was miserable and he told me it would get easier I know it will and it already has because I have voiced it with him and now I feel even better because why you ask I’m blogging and blogging is always best.

Well Guys and Girls thanks just stopping by so that I can burn off a lot of stress, grief and any other stuff that is left over from the last four years.  It will be a little easier I feel simply because I finally got the last request done for Carl even if I didn’t take him personally to New Hampshire he is on his way and he is doing it his way.  I love you all please leave me a comment and let me know what you think.

 

MOM 3-9-33 to 9-5-00

Hello family, fellow bloggers and friends:  It’s that time again to wish my Mom Happy Birthday today would have been 83 years young.  She didn’t get to watch her oldest great grandson turn 18 nor will she been at her oldest great granddaughter graduation in May of the year.  She has been missing a lot since she has been gone but no matter what we still all think about her a lot and still miss and love her every day.

I have a habit of wondering what it would be like to still have her with us and enjoying the company of her but then I remember that she was in lots of pain before she had to leave us and I wouldn’t want her in pain plus I know I’m being selfish by wanting her to be here.  She is up in heaven with my Grandma, Nana, and all the others who have gone on before and after her so I know that she is surrounded by family and her friends who have gone too.

Mom I hope you have a great birthday today and I will be seeing you soon.  I love you and miss you every day.  Everyone is doing okay and missing you too.  Mark is still at the paper however you always said if he retired the paper would fall apart I’m starting to think you might be right on that score.  Well Mom that is all for now take care and thanks for everything.